Being a father can be a hard thing. Compare it to having your heart out of your body walking around without any of your control. You do your best to lay the foundation, and then fret when one of the children make choices you do not agree with. Both of my son's, Jacob the oldest and Jordan the youngest, live in the Sacramento area. Jacob does auto body and upholstery work, and Jordan is in retail. I think about them daily and hope for the best. As do all you other fathers I am sure.